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Sundari

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Buffalo, NY
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RELIGIOUS BELIEF Hindu
DATING STATUS Married
AGE Fifties
STAR SIGN Gemini
CHINESE SIGN Dragon
LIFE PATH NUMBER 3
MEMBER SINCE: 06/03/2008
LAST LOGIN: 08/04/2008 06:27:13
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Crocheting baby bonnets for our children's hospital nursery, journaling, coordinating my community chorus' 45th anniversary concert coming up in December, mulching the garden, re-painting my living room (I like tropical colors and Bali style decor that warms me up in the cold and snowy Buffalo winters!)

Spirituality, Reading, Writing, Welcoming others with acceptance and love.

Emergency preparedness. I'm on my county's Public Health Emergency Response Team and am a co-leader for the Isolation and Quarantine division in the event of a pandemic flu. I'm so aware of how ill-prepared our population is for a widespread disruption in infrastructure services and how important it is to be prepared for an unexpected natural disaster. I give presentations in creating family emergency plans and emergency supply kits.

I mostly read books about Zen, meditation, transpersonal psychology, sadhana, Buddhism, monastic and contemplative living, yoga and writing. I also like to occasionally read medical or paranormal thrillers when I need mindless 'veg' time.

Hindu chants; Indian bhangra music; classical music (both of my daughters play the oboe, my son-in-laws play the violin and piano/organ, and my husband and I play the piano); smooth piano-bar jazz; John Mayer, Sting and Annie Lennox.

The Nun's Story (with Audrey Hepburn), The Thornbirds, Dirty Dancing, Doc Hollywood, What About Bob?, Gone with the Wind, Same Time Next Year. (I have a list of about 25 movies that I would take with me to a desert island but my mind is going blank on the others right now.) I like movies that uplift and inspire me, touch my heart, make me laugh and remind me of how much good there is in the world. I try to guard what I put into my mind, as I find residual impressions linger. I rarely watch violence, even on TV and in the news, and I refuse to pay hard-earned money to watch it in a theater movie under the guise of 'entertainment',


eHarmony





When all is said and done, it's only the present moment that is real--the past is a memory and the future is a fantasy. I want to learn to stay anchored in the present moment where eternity dwells.

The heart is the hub of all sacred spaces. Go there and roam... Bhagawan Nityananda

I'm a fifty-six year old medical social worker, married for 35 years, mother of two daughters, grandma to one grandson (and another baby on the way!) and have had a guru since 1992. I've been to India twice on pilgrimage. I meditate regularly and belong to a chanting group. I enjoy reading spiritual books especially about Zen and the monastic life, journaling, collecting quotes that are meaningful to me, hiking in the woods and along the shore of Lake Erie (I live in a suburb of Buffalo, NY), playing with my grandson and visiting my two daughters and their families in the NYC area, doing calligraphy, crocheting baby bonnets for our local pediatric hospital's nursery, singing in a community chorus (I'm President of the Board of Directors), contemplation and self-inquiry, and decorating. I like to garden but have a hard time in the heat (Ayruvedic pitta constitution). I enjoy collecting (and eating!) vegetarian recipes (although I DO eat chicken, pork and fish occasionally when my body craves animal protein) and enjoy hatha yoga for its spiritual aspects of uniting breath, mind and body. I have come to understand and experience over the years with my guru that when I am truly in the present moment, my ordinary life becomes quite extraordinary and lacks nothing.

To know myself as the 'Self'.

I'm a medical social worker servicing families with severely handicapped or chronically ill children. I help families secure government funding for nursing care in the home and for environmental modifications to the family home to make it handicapped accessible, so that parents don't have to institutionalize their technology-dependent or medically frail children. I've been doing this for 15 years.

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07/19/2008 04:36:24

Faith is Beyond Intelligence! By PARAMAHAMSA SRI NITHYANANDA


 


Dear Pam, Many thanks for a quick welcome, which helps me in coming back to this website daily.

It is great to learn about your spritual journeys to India. May I include a small story by Bhagwan Nityanandji?
On other two matters you asked, I will come separately. But first this great message, especially as we all in India celebrated GURU POORNIMA (Poornima= full moon day of 9th month of Hindu caendar).

Jay Gurudev,

Deepak

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Extracts from a short article in the Economic Times daily newspaper,
18th July, 2008)


 


 


“Our thoughts have a lot of power. Be clear about one thing: if you believe in a particular god or guru, believe with all your might. Do not bother about whether he has power or not. Your faith has the power. Ramakrishna used to narrate this beautiful parable to his devotees.


 


A learned scholar, a great pundit, had his home on one bank of a river. All provisions for his home used to come from the other bank. A milkmaid used to bring him fresh milk every morning.


 


One morning she was late, very late. The pundit was very angry with her. “My morning prayers have been delayed because of you,” he ranted, “don’t you have any responsibility?” She apologized profusely. “Master, the river was in spate and the boats refused to ply. That’s why I was late.”


 


“Don’t give me excuses” roared the pundit, “if the boats couldn’t come you should have walked on water. How can you make the gods wait? Have faith and cross the river.” The milkmaid meekly listened and went away. She was never late again. A month later it rained profusely for a week and no boats could ply. Yet, the milkmaid came on time and delivered the milk.


 


The pundit asked the milkmaid how she managed to come at all. She simply said, “you told me how to do it. I believed in you and walked on the water ever since that day!” The pundit was shocked. Disbelieving her, he took her to the riverbank and told her to cross the river, which she did with ease. “If this milkmaid can do it believing in me, I should have greater powers” thought the pundit. Lifting his dhoti with one hand he stepped into the water and promptly sank.         ( dhoti= rectangular piece of unstitched cloth, usually around 5 yards long, wrapped about the waist and the legs, and knotted at the waist)


 


“Oh! Master! What faith do you have? How can you cross the river if you believe your dhoti would get wet?” You do not need an enlightened master to liberate you. All you need is absolute trust. A stone can liberate you. Ramakrishna was enlightened through his unshakeable faith in the statue of Mother Kali.


 


When you live with such trust and surrender your mind, body and senses to the entity you trust in, you are automatically enlightened!”


 


 



07/19/2008 04:31:09

Dear pam,


pamkowal wrote:


Hi, Deepak!  Welcome to the group!  I've been to India twice on pilgrimage to my Guru's ashram in Ganeshpuri, north of Mumbai, and have found India to be a beautiful country with warm and welcoming people. (I'm so grateful that I got to visit there before the airline ticket prices skyrocketed.)  I see that you are living in an extended family group.  Is it challenging to have so many generations of adults who have their own ways of being and personal habits living under one roof?  What kind of images do you most like to photograph?  Pam 




06/24/2008 10:23:10

Hi,, Pam, and thanks for your comment on my page.  Seems we do have significant things in common!  you were asking aobut Dawna Markova -- here is the url for her website.  Her books are great.  http://www.dawnamarkova.com/

I'm just stepping into an online art-journal project with artist Lani Gerity, called The Heroine's Journey.  It is delicious and perfect for a summer of ongoing self-discovery through creativity.  http://www.lanipuppetmaker.com/

As for media, my favourite is my newest zone of learning: oil painting.  I've tried and enjoyed most that cross my path, including s little calligraphy this spring.  Anything that comes up through Artella's website or through my local Spark of Brilliance group (mental health healing through the arts) delights me.  Love music and hope that in my next life I will be able to carry a tune myself! 

I've been meditating daily for 30 years, and just last year enriched my silent practice by adding chanting. 

Given your love of medical mysteries, you'd likely enjoy the recent outstanding tv series ReGenesis currently re-running on either Showcase or Bravo.

Take it from one who knows:  Retirement Rocks!!  I finished my career years at age 58, and the past five have been a splendid entry to the closing phase of this colourful lifetime!

Merrikate



06/14/2008 15:51:03

Hi,

I'd like to invite you to join The Prayers and Answers group which is under the head group Spirituality.
Within the sacred space of this group, we can request prayers and/or request guidance and assistance with matters concerning ourselves or our loved ones.
I'd be honoured if you would join us there.

Love,
Shamila



06/05/2008 11:50:39

Hi Pam! Thank you so much for joining our new community! It's wonderful to have you here!  ~Valerie



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